Sometimes we need to let it out!!!

It’s good for everyone if we don’t bottle everything up! We need to work on our communication skills and have daily and weekly scheduled talks with people, especially people who are driving your crazy 🙂

I had a very long and possibly hurtful talk with my bf. I felt he was seriously slacking with the responsibilities that now rest upon his shoulders. However, during the convo I made sure to try and tell him that I was still supportive of him and I didn’t think him worthless. I just needed him to know I don’t like his job and the way it keeps everyone apart. If we had all our bills paid and didn’t have things to worry about it may be different but we don’t.

Remember our significant others are people too and we all do the best we can with what we are given. Do not put all the blame or responsibility on them. Be in a relationship together and give it all you got. Not 50/50 but a whole 100/100 (trey and Leah marriage advice).

Hate does not Live here

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Today I really wanted to tell someone I hate them and what they are doing to me. I had to stop and breathe and realize that the situation was in my control as well and it is not entirely their fault. I can not blame one person for my life going down the hill right now. Once I fall to the bottom, unless I get stopped on the way down and helped back up, there is no where left to go again except back up the hill!

Anytime we feel overwhelmed by a situation we need to check our reactions to the event and find out why we feel the way we do about it. It can be hard to place some or all the blame on ourselves because we love to follow a theory that anything good is because of us and anything bad is because of someone else. This is NOT true. We should not hate ourselves for getting in the position and we should not hate our partners. Turn the situation around as best you can.

Having a child makes the days so much better and you really have to focus on how you are feeling and reacting to situations. I could not walk around angry at other people all the time or sad because I hate myself for what I have done. It doesn’t work. Our children see more than we know and they react to it as well.

Lets keep the world happy, hate can not live here in my life anymore! Love Your Life 🙂

My life

25 year old mother of a gorgeous four year old boy and a beautiful daughter on the way 🙂

I have never formally blogged before, but decided it would be the best way for me to keep a personal journal as well as help to organize my life. I want to understand my daily duties and reveal to those how we can love living and not always find it a hassle. This is my main reason for doing this, to share greatness with the world and to help us live better with each other.

I have not lived the perfect life or even a life some would consider worthy, but it is my life and I treasure most moments…I want to start treasuring all moments. Life is always throwing stones at me and it seemed unnecessary, but I think I may not have been getting the true message from life.

I have loved and cheated, stolen and gave, argued and agreed. I am a person. You are a person, you are not perfect. So now let’s
Love the life we live and Live the life we love!